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Ramona 02-23-2007 08:46 AM

It's come to my attention
 
It's been brought to my attention that the way I express myself has caused quite a stirr amoung Eskimo friends. Recently, I received "the word" (thanks wheels for being so considerate) that complaint's have been made, and the threatening for my account to be frozen/or banned will occur if I don't learn how to accommodate your "sensitivity" to online human reaction, to replace my ACTUAL personality I am supposed to express myself in a more delicate, and gentle way, you know, something you're a bit more used to. This includes;
(1)Agreeing to everything you say
(2)Supporting everything you do
(3)Being your best eskimo friend
(4) Egging on all swirling stupidity this site collects (Which I highly doubt Damien endorses)
(5)The most important of all, Subject myself to actually reducing my tolerance to your petty and most asburdly bad habits of posting terrible, terrible threads.


BEF for life guys, from now on! I swear.



Yours truely,
Ramona

LaurenM 02-23-2007 08:52 AM

aww i know it's really difficult for you, so thanks for making an attempt at trying! I love honnney! :hello2: :hello2: :hello2:

Ramona 02-23-2007 08:57 AM

Ps; BF43lsjsfjllzzlz whatever for life okay? I love you girl.

Yetzirah 02-23-2007 09:56 AM

i don't think you got wheel's point. you've got all the rights in the world to express your opinions. you're free to disagree, girl. it is about the way you deliver them. the way you treat fellow human beings. that's all. and you don't have to read all the threads and all the things people write. it might be healthier...

Ramona 02-23-2007 10:05 AM

I got that, but you are still trying to grab controll on how to monitor me, which in anycase is still telling me to go back into a shell. If I can so freely express myself how I want, then how I deliver is irrelavent.

Tom 02-23-2007 10:30 AM

The thing I am interested to know is why? I've just started posting on this forum having watched it for about 8 months, and then going to see a fantastic Damien concert. So far I've introduced myself, posted a few comments, asked a few questions and just tried to be friendly and get to know people.

But since you have been here, you have been scathing/nasty to someone trying to quit smoking, having some computer problems, people who wish happy birthday, advice offered on cover songs, a question on the origin of 'Eskimo'. Oh and of course the forum itself.

Your individual comments dont have that huge affect on me personally, I'm an adult and have put up with much worse. Plus we are generally semi-faceless name tags to each other, so really its all just words on a screen. I imagine I'll cop it from you now just for posting this, but thats ok. Really i just wanna ask, why? Why go to all the effort of posting on a forum for which you seem to have such distain? Wouldnt you save a lot of time and effort by simply not being here?

By the way, is that your picture? You're pretty cute :P Just to confuse things :)

Ships_Were_Sailin 02-23-2007 10:47 AM

lol yeah, after that picture she can say what she wants :P

but nah i think your just causing a stir because of the abusing, but tom got it right we are all just nametags at the end of the day, but i think people are noticing your 'unique' way of posting.

verenita 02-23-2007 06:19 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ships_Were_Sailin
we are all just nametags at the end of the day

sorry, but i have to desagree with that? why? just a few examples (and iīm pretty newbie -is that right?- in here, so iīm kind of noone, do you know what i mean?):

- emmet sent to me a pm just to give me a personal welcome (i guess i wasnīt the only one).
- cille (still is hard to believe you took your time to think of me) sent to me a pm just to let me know that damien confesed heīd like/want to play some gigs in southamerica and that made to her think of me, southamerican girl. thatīs was so overwhelmed (as i let her know).
- wheels told me how to put my picture as avatar (i am so ignorant!, he he) and took his (i guess... or her) time to let me know (i remember that night, it was like four or five pm in a few minutes...).
- i read (not so often) happy birthday thread... and, believe me, i donīt think some of that wishes are meaningless words.
- there are a lot of things like this... maybe iīm not so involved with them (my english is pretty basic), but there are true...

i think everyone can feel free to say or do what they want... but i donīt see the reason of being not respectful! we are all the same on earth, so kindness is the best thing we have...

thatīs my two cents (sorry for my grammar or ortographic mistakes)

verenita

Ships_Were_Sailin 02-23-2007 06:32 PM

point taken, but i didnt mean it in the sense that it came accross, i know we are all friends, but i was speaking from a broader perspective, i know relashionships can be made across forums like this, and i do respect everyone here, i dont think i worded it right in my last post but i didnt mean how it came accross.

bah, its hard to explain what i meant by we are just nametags, but i didnt mean that in the way that we dont share any kind of friendship or respect for eachother, just in the way that nothing abusive or negative should be taken to heart, especially from someone you dont know, its different when people have been posting and talking for ages.

argh, i dunno, sorry if it came accross wrong

verenita 02-23-2007 06:58 PM

donīt worry, you express yourself pretty well (at least, to me)

verenita

ps: btw, i forgot to say that before, but sorry if it seem i was overeacted!, ha ha... my friends use to joke about that ("vere, the pretty sensitive girl, but we love her anyway...")

Gatsby 02-23-2007 08:34 PM

this smells to me of a polar bear rebellion again.

either that or someone with a hell of alot of issues. :)

carvinC980t_kid 02-23-2007 09:15 PM

the igloo is FARRR too cold for you.

do everyone here a favor...

GO TO HELL.

also, what is the point of posting here if you don't like it? one person isn't going to change the way things work around here. its like picking up a new religion, then saying you think the way the do things isn't correct, so you try and change it. completely illogical.

Ramona 02-23-2007 10:47 PM

OH everyone, I make no excuses for my apparent faults. I havent read everyones responses yet, but forgive me for offending you all. It comes so natural that I forget how cruel I really am, It's quite tragic really, to have so little compassion for people who share the same love (Damien) Of course I don't belong here, but I love Damien just as much as everyone else here, So why can't you all just have fun with me.

Ships_Were_Sailin 02-23-2007 10:48 PM

ill have fun with you.........ahem

Yetzirah 02-23-2007 10:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Revelate
this smells to me of a polar bear rebellion again.

either that or someone with a hell of alot of issues. :)


hehe, that's exactly what it reminded me of as well...

and carvin, no need to get aggressive, boy... :love2: :smiley17: ;)

Ships_Were_Sailin 02-23-2007 10:56 PM

hes about to join the marines, he's on the edge as it is :P

Yetzirah 02-23-2007 10:59 PM

:smiley36:

verenita 02-24-2007 12:23 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ramona
OH everyone, I make no excuses for my apparent faults. I havent read everyones responses yet, but forgive me for offending you all. It comes so natural that I forget how cruel I really am, It's quite tragic really, to have so little compassion for people who share the same love (Damien) Of course I don't belong here, but I love Damien just as much as everyone else here, So why can't you all just have fun with me.


i think thatī a good idea!
verenita

Gatsby 02-24-2007 12:48 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ramona
OH everyone, I make no excuses for my apparent faults. I havent read everyones responses yet, but forgive me for offending you all. It comes so natural that I forget how cruel I really am, It's quite tragic really, to have so little compassion for people who share the same love (Damien) Of course I don't belong here, but I love Damien just as much as everyone else here, So why can't you all just have fun with me.

bring on the fun so. :)

being bitchy and naggy isnt too much fun tho :sleepy2:

Ramona 02-24-2007 01:19 AM

It's just who I am

Gatsby 02-24-2007 01:50 AM

would i be so bold as to say all women have bitchy and naggy traits? probably. but ill say it anyways :)

yeah just chill and have fun. Its a fun place once you dont question it too much. Ive been posting here far too long but something brings me back all the time

anyways clean slate and all that

Vienna 02-24-2007 01:59 AM

yeh well all men are thoughtless and forgetful useless arseholes so!!!


ah but i love you simon so i'll forgive ya but just this once!!

Gatsby 02-24-2007 02:00 AM

dont be sorry. i completely agree :smiley4:

Vienna 02-24-2007 02:23 AM

well good i like it when people agree with me! :D

carvinC980t_kid 02-24-2007 03:06 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Yetzirah
and carvin, no need to get aggressive, boy... :love2: :smiley17: ;)

yes ma'am : (

(hides tale between lages and runs off)
hehe

i'll play nice next time, but just for you Yetzirah!

Yetzirah 02-24-2007 04:39 PM

hehe, i'd love to see that! :smiley36:

oh, that'd be lovely! :smiley9:

LaurenM 02-25-2007 01:48 AM

Ramona's busking in Barcelona all weekend, so everyone wish her luck!

carvinC980t_kid 02-25-2007 01:55 AM

you don't really expect people to wish her good luck do ya?

Ramona 02-25-2007 04:54 AM

Lauren you act like I dont do it everyday anyway AHHA you are cute L.

Tom 02-25-2007 05:01 AM

By the way, who is Anne Coulter?


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