i am so sick of this!

Livo · 12-02-2004, 08:13 PM

this week has been so crap for me. 52% on a spanish test. parent
teacher meetings next tuesday. it's not like i'm in serious trouble in
school, but i'm worried. i made a major mistake by introducing my
friends to good music in first and second year, now i feel like
everything i have that's a trademark of me is being stolen and soon i
won't have anything of myself to hold on to. i'm probably being really
petty and i should just get over myself but i can't. i can't believe
what a totally awful week i've been having and i just want to cry, not
out of sadness but out of anger and frustration. i want to punch a good
few people in the face too.

sorry about that, i really had to get it out and any feedback would be greatly appreciated..

Colbarr · 12-02-2004, 08:20 PM

my parent teacher meetin is on tuesday too and im worried because lately i havent been doin my homework and my mam and dad dont know that. but the majority of teachers dont have a problem with meso hopefully all will go well.

Donsie B! · 12-02-2004, 08:22 PM

ive hugged ya already..u takin in my smell[img]smileys/smiley17.gif[/img]

my week sucks to..i had an irish listenin test and got 67%..which my
irish teacher thinks is a disater 4 me, and i wotn get an A or a B in
rish, and i talk 2 much in class, and i am screwed for my PTMs to and
my xmas test...now i need a hug!

Patricia · 12-02-2004, 08:23 PM

How I'd like to be worrying about homework...Unfortunately I'm not,other thingsare making me sad[img]smileys/smiley19.gif[/img](well most of the time, I'm good right now!)

I understand you tho, I was the same, we all have to deal with the problems we have.

Hope you feel better soon!

eskimo_friendly · 12-03-2004, 12:56 AM

Livo we've all gone through that teenage identity-crisis stuff etc.. and it will come and go and come and go a thousand times before you hit college and all of a sudden you meet people who's personalities have finally stabalised, yours included. Only then will your personality really grow.

Right now your personality and inner feelings are like a young baby - they will want one thing one minute and something totally different the next minute and then they'll want everything and then nothing and then they won't know what they want. They'll throw tantrums and cry and then laugh a few hours later and then cry again and laugh again. And just like a young baby you just have to deal with your personality and look after it because once it grows up its totally worth it.

Oh and dont worry bout the parent teacher meetings. In another few years they wont matter a damn to anyone.

Mojo_Pin1980 · 12-03-2004, 11:20 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Livo

i'm probably being really petty and i should just get over myself

*coughs*

[img]smileys/smiley2.gif[/img]

Where did the "Complain about your petty problems" thread go???[img]smileys/smiley36.gif[/img]

Uno- X · 12-03-2004, 12:21 PM

oh yes. we need that thread back. I need to rant.

Mojo_Pin1980 · 12-03-2004, 02:39 PM

So who's gonna bump it?

Uno- X · 12-03-2004, 02:43 PM

you maybe...

Mojo_Pin1980 · 12-03-2004, 02:49 PM

Or you..

Uno- X · 12-03-2004, 02:52 PM

no you.

Donsie B! · 12-03-2004, 05:09 PM

oh livo i agress wit ya bout the "other people stealin ur signature
things" bit...ppl alway steal my bands..i once attempted 2 bridge this
my takin a friend 2 mark geary..no coomment[img]smileys/smiley19.gif[/img]

Ameraldo · 12-03-2004, 06:36 PM

peoples personalities are stableised by the time they go to college?! are you sure about that? maybe its just people in the performing industry. we're all emotional f**kheads! i dont think most people like me will ever have stable personas... ever. we have too much to worry about!

Jarv · 12-04-2004, 08:58 PM

parent-teacher meanings mean f**k all! god, you will realise that in a few years, i'd love to be back at school worrying about parent teacher meetings, and don't worry too much about identities either, they'll all change over the years, just chill out, pick what feels best and wha you love when it comes to the music you listen to, the films you watch, the clothes you wear etc and don't worry about other people

Donsie B! · 12-06-2004, 12:22 PM

..it's easy 2 dat when u are "all grown up" jarv!

marymac · 12-06-2004, 12:25 PM

Man...

I'm in college. I'm doing a fricking MA and I'm still screwed over my work. Its just that this time its costing me parents money as well.

I need to get organised. So badly.

Louise · 12-06-2004, 12:34 PM

Livo I reckon everyone can relate to how you're feeling, I think we've all felt that way at some stage or other. But it will pass. Really it will, I promise.

Worst case scenario, your teachers will give out about you, your parents will give out to you, and you'll feel crappy for a few days. But it will pass. And in a couple of weeks it will be forgotten. And thats the WORST case.

As for the whole identity thing-I felt the exact same way at one stage, but sooner or later you realise that no one can take the things that make you you away. They're yours and yours alone. Even if you have someone trying to be your evil twin and doing all the same things as you they won't feel the same way or look at things the same way you do. Its up to you whether you let other's actions dictate how you feel about things.

And it will pass.

I promise. [img]smileys/smiley1.gif[/img]

Lemonhead · 12-06-2004, 03:47 PM

ditch the friends and find people more like you, you don't sound like you enjoy their company at all! just be thankful that your healthy and remember what's important...![img]smileys/smiley4.gif[/img]try voodoo-dolls too.

Donsie B! · 12-06-2004, 08:06 PM

worked 4 me![img]smileys/smiley4.gif[/img]

jayavo · 12-06-2004, 08:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Livo

i made a major mistake by introducing my friends to good music in first and second year, now i feel like everything i have that's a trademark of me is being stolen and soon i won't have anything of myself to hold on to. i'm probably being really petty and i should just get over myself but i can't. i can't believe what a totally awful week i've been having and i just want to cry, not out of sadness but out of anger and frustration. i want to punch a good few people in the face too.

sorry about that, i really had to get it out and any feedback would be greatly appreciated..

ok any feedback you said...

first...the music isnt yours. it isnt you. it is simply something you love, enjoy. friendship is about sharing ....you and the things you love. you sound like you are complaining that your friends have ...gasp!...taken an interest in something you love. so i would say yes you need to get over yourself because you do sound petty.

second...if this is a horrible week for you , you might want to look around the globe at the bs that goes on and consider yourself quite lucky. and be prepared, life will get a lot tougher and if this makes you want to squash people, we will be reading about you in the papers after life does get tougher.

third... its good to get out these irrational thoughts of anger and frustration. and a place like this is much better than doing so in a manner such as columbine.

fourth....i hope you take this in the spirit it is given. lighthearted, yet honest advice. [img]smileys/smiley1.gif[/img]

fifth...study your spanish, youll never be able to live in california without it.

jason

I love the Pope, I love seeing him in his Pope-Mobile, his three feet of bullet proof plexi-glass. That's faith in action folks! You know he's got God on his side.

bil hicks

Jarv · 12-06-2004, 08:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Donsie B!

..it's easy 2 dat when u are "all grown up" jarv!

[img]smileys/smiley36.gif[/img]lol i aint grown up, far from it,probably not much older than you, i just never bothered too much with the whole school thingy, i mean, 52% on a test, that's a pass right?? then f**k it, it could be a sh*te sight worse, you could have a learning disability and not even be able to do a test. your friends copy your style?? once again, friends are under-rated, be thankfulyou have friends who respect your opinion enough to imitate you or take your advice on music, it's all gravy

eims · 12-06-2004, 09:01 PM

Well said[img]smileys/smiley32.gif[/img]

Theres so many things that we take for granted , and then worry about the little tiny ones-- yep it's really annoying, trying to tell yourself that it doesnt matter its only a little thing- and in the big picture---- u cant even see it!!

That's life i s'pose, but there are so many things that we should b grateful for--- i'm not gonna start preaching

nope i'm not!!

Jarv · 12-06-2004, 09:05 PM

go on.........preach sister! preach!

eims · 12-06-2004, 09:08 PM

[img]smileys/smiley36.gif[/img]no .. not today -- or you'll be sorry!!

Lemonhead · 12-07-2004, 07:46 PM

bump how's things now?!!

12-02-2004, 08:13 PM	#1
Livo Eskimo Frames Expert Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: People's Republic of Cork Posts: 2,559	this week has been so crap for me. 52% on a spanish test. parent teacher meetings next tuesday. it's not like i'm in serious trouble in school, but i'm worried. i made a major mistake by introducing my friends to good music in first and second year, now i feel like everything i have that's a trademark of me is being stolen and soon i won't have anything of myself to hold on to. i'm probably being really petty and i should just get over myself but i can't. i can't believe what a totally awful week i've been having and i just want to cry, not out of sadness but out of anger and frustration. i want to punch a good few people in the face too. sorry about that, i really had to get it out and any feedback would be greatly appreciated.. __________________ trying to find a little chaos in the order..

12-02-2004, 08:20 PM	#2
Colbarr Eskimo Welcomer Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: A cosy House in Dublin Posts: 1,428	my parent teacher meetin is on tuesday too and im worried because lately i havent been doin my homework and my mam and dad dont know that. but the majority of teachers dont have a problem with meso hopefully all will go well. __________________ Colin Barr, Squeezed together = Colbarr Check these out, Moesley. Chairman of the Welcoming Comittee.

12-02-2004, 08:22 PM	#3
Donsie B! Eskimo Charmer Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Ireland Posts: 4,098	ive hugged ya already..u takin in my smell[img]smileys/smiley17.gif[/img] my week sucks to..i had an irish listenin test and got 67%..which my irish teacher thinks is a disater 4 me, and i wotn get an A or a B in rish, and i talk 2 much in class, and i am screwed for my PTMs to and my xmas test...now i need a hug! __________________ 1 back bedroom, 2 empty beds on the floor, 3 people dancing, 4 drinks down and i just don't care, 5 in the morning, 6 stories up looking down, 7 still fighting, 8 times around but this time i wont drown! Nightrocker- The Chalets

12-02-2004, 08:23 PM	#4
Patricia Eskimo Regular Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: United Kingdom Posts: 3,213	How I'd like to be worrying about homework...Unfortunately I'm not,other thingsare making me sad[img]smileys/smiley19.gif[/img](well most of the time, I'm good right now!) I understand you tho, I was the same, we all have to deal with the problems we have. Hope you feel better soon! __________________ "To do is to be" - Nietzsche "To be is to do" - Kant "Do be do be do" - Sinatra

12-03-2004, 12:21 PM	#7
Uno- X Eskimo CSI Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 14,495	oh yes. we need that thread back. I need to rant. __________________ Do you realize that you have the most beautiful face? Do you realize we're floating in space?

12-03-2004, 12:56 AM	#5
eskimo_friendly Eskimo Regular Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Dublin Posts: 418	Livo we've all gone through that teenage identity-crisis stuff etc.. and it will come and go and come and go a thousand times before you hit college and all of a sudden you meet people who's personalities have finally stabalised, yours included. Only then will your personality really grow. Right now your personality and inner feelings are like a young baby - they will want one thing one minute and something totally different the next minute and then they'll want everything and then nothing and then they won't know what they want. They'll throw tantrums and cry and then laugh a few hours later and then cry again and laugh again. And just like a young baby you just have to deal with your personality and look after it because once it grows up its totally worth it. Oh and dont worry bout the parent teacher meetings. In another few years they wont matter a damn to anyone.

12-03-2004, 02:39 PM	#8
Mojo_Pin1980 Eskimo Regular Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Holland Posts: 3,280	So who's gonna bump it? __________________ Reaching out to embrace the random Reaching out to embrace whatever may come

12-03-2004, 02:43 PM	#9
Uno- X Eskimo CSI Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 14,495	you maybe... __________________ Do you realize that you have the most beautiful face? Do you realize we're floating in space?

12-03-2004, 02:49 PM	#10
Mojo_Pin1980 Eskimo Regular Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Holland Posts: 3,280	Or you.. __________________ Reaching out to embrace the random Reaching out to embrace whatever may come

12-03-2004, 02:52 PM	#11
Uno- X Eskimo CSI Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 14,495	no you. __________________ Do you realize that you have the most beautiful face? Do you realize we're floating in space?

12-03-2004, 05:09 PM	#12
Donsie B! Eskimo Charmer Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Ireland Posts: 4,098	oh livo i agress wit ya bout the "other people stealin ur signature things" bit...ppl alway steal my bands..i once attempted 2 bridge this my takin a friend 2 mark geary..no coomment[img]smileys/smiley19.gif[/img] __________________ 1 back bedroom, 2 empty beds on the floor, 3 people dancing, 4 drinks down and i just don't care, 5 in the morning, 6 stories up looking down, 7 still fighting, 8 times around but this time i wont drown! Nightrocker- The Chalets

12-03-2004, 06:36 PM	#13
Ameraldo Eskimo Regular Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: United Kingdom Posts: 535	peoples personalities are stableised by the time they go to college?! are you sure about that? maybe its just people in the performing industry. we're all emotional f**kheads! i dont think most people like me will ever have stable personas... ever. we have too much to worry about! __________________ ...why can't we look the other way?

12-04-2004, 08:58 PM	#14
Jarv Eskimo Regular Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Christmas Island Posts: 401	parent-teacher meanings mean f**k all! god, you will realise that in a few years, i'd love to be back at school worrying about parent teacher meetings, and don't worry too much about identities either, they'll all change over the years, just chill out, pick what feels best and wha you love when it comes to the music you listen to, the films you watch, the clothes you wear etc and don't worry about other people __________________ Don't count the days. Make the days count

12-06-2004, 12:22 PM	#15
Donsie B! Eskimo Charmer Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Ireland Posts: 4,098	..it's easy 2 dat when u are "all grown up" jarv! __________________ 1 back bedroom, 2 empty beds on the floor, 3 people dancing, 4 drinks down and i just don't care, 5 in the morning, 6 stories up looking down, 7 still fighting, 8 times around but this time i wont drown! Nightrocker- The Chalets

12-06-2004, 12:25 PM	#16
marymac Eskimo Regular Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 236	Man... I'm in college. I'm doing a fricking MA and I'm still screwed over my work. Its just that this time its costing me parents money as well. I need to get organised. So badly. __________________ -Just another holy ghost, singing on my radio-

12-06-2004, 12:34 PM	#17
Louise Eskimo Regular Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: Ireland Posts: 2,118	Livo I reckon everyone can relate to how you're feeling, I think we've all felt that way at some stage or other. But it will pass. Really it will, I promise. Worst case scenario, your teachers will give out about you, your parents will give out to you, and you'll feel crappy for a few days. But it will pass. And in a couple of weeks it will be forgotten. And thats the WORST case. As for the whole identity thing-I felt the exact same way at one stage, but sooner or later you realise that no one can take the things that make you you away. They're yours and yours alone. Even if you have someone trying to be your evil twin and doing all the same things as you they won't feel the same way or look at things the same way you do. Its up to you whether you let other's actions dictate how you feel about things. And it will pass. I promise. [img]smileys/smiley1.gif[/img] __________________ "Every line means something"

12-06-2004, 03:47 PM	#18
Lemonhead Eskimo Regular Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Ireland Posts: 2,097	ditch the friends and find people more like you, you don't sound like you enjoy their company at all! just be thankful that your healthy and remember what's important...![img]smileys/smiley4.gif[/img]try voodoo-dolls too. __________________ No liquor in the land can stop the brain from bleedin'- Bob Dylan

12-06-2004, 08:06 PM	#19
Donsie B! Eskimo Charmer Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Ireland Posts: 4,098	worked 4 me![img]smileys/smiley4.gif[/img] __________________ 1 back bedroom, 2 empty beds on the floor, 3 people dancing, 4 drinks down and i just don't care, 5 in the morning, 6 stories up looking down, 7 still fighting, 8 times around but this time i wont drown! Nightrocker- The Chalets

12-06-2004, 09:01 PM	#22
eims Eskimo Eejit Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: University of Wales, Aberystwyth. Originally from Norn Iron tho.. Posts: 2,517	Well said[img]smileys/smiley32.gif[/img] Theres so many things that we take for granted , and then worry about the little tiny ones-- yep it's really annoying, trying to tell yourself that it doesnt matter its only a little thing- and in the big picture---- u cant even see it!! That's life i s'pose, but there are so many things that we should b grateful for--- i'm not gonna start preaching nope i'm not!! __________________ ..We can speak louder than ignorance Cause we speak in silence everytime our eyes meet..

12-06-2004, 09:05 PM	#23
Jarv Eskimo Regular Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Christmas Island Posts: 401	go on.........preach sister! preach! __________________ Don't count the days. Make the days count

12-06-2004, 09:08 PM	#24
eims Eskimo Eejit Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: University of Wales, Aberystwyth. Originally from Norn Iron tho.. Posts: 2,517	[img]smileys/smiley36.gif[/img]no .. not today -- or you'll be sorry!! __________________ ..We can speak louder than ignorance Cause we speak in silence everytime our eyes meet..

12-07-2004, 07:46 PM	#25
Lemonhead Eskimo Regular Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Ireland Posts: 2,097	bump how's things now?!! __________________ No liquor in the land can stop the brain from bleedin'- Bob Dylan