sh*t - OMG

mestonf · 07-01-2004, 10:35 PM

people i need your help this might seem really irrelavant to you as i'm not a person to some people but belive me i am, but i live in a really close community and i have just seen my happily married neighbour kissing another man. sh*t i'm scared the other man was another neighbour. this could ruin their families, do i keep it to myself or tell my mum. I have known these people for years and it was the weiredest thing i have seen, whats this world coming to [img]smileys/smiley5.gif[/img]

Vienna · 07-01-2004, 10:36 PM

OMG that's madness...dunno what i'd do in that situation [img]smileys/smiley5.gif[/img]

GlttrGrrl · 07-01-2004, 10:37 PM

unless you know the details of this person's relationship with her husband and this other man and are a friend of theirs, I don't think you should say anything.

mestonf · 07-01-2004, 10:38 PM

no i don't wanna say anything because it could have been a drunken 5 minutes kiss, but it just kinda freaked me out

pamela · 07-01-2004, 10:42 PM

umm tough call..... it depends on a lotta things. i dunno sorry

mestonf · 07-01-2004, 10:43 PM

yeah it is.....i'm just gonna forget about it and go to bed.....but forgetting could be hard...........but anyway i'm just listening to dry your eyes mate by the streets seems to be good at this moment in time

Patricia · 07-01-2004, 10:45 PM

Honey, this is none of your business Im afraid... Not telling may make you feel guilty, but if you tell, you might end up feeling bad as well... [img]smileys/smiley18.gif[/img]

mestonf · 07-01-2004, 10:46 PM

yeah it could mean that i'm butting in others personal lives but i won't say anything......the woman's children are all ready f**ked up as it is.....i shan't say anything

The Weatherman · 07-01-2004, 11:45 PM

Was this not in that teen programme, The O.C.? [img]smileys/smiley5.gif[/img]

Tomarse · 07-02-2004, 12:21 AM

Maybe you mistook the tele for a window then. [img]smileys/smiley36.gif[/img]Ahem, sorry, errrrrr I'd probably just tell my mates. [img]smileys/smiley2.gif[/img]Still not helping am I? I'll get my coat. [img]smileys/smiley29.gif[/img]

Angela · 07-02-2004, 02:29 AM

It seems that, though you've "known" them for many years, perhaps you don't know as much about their private lives as you thought. And, as you said yourself, who knows what it all means. Not for you to worry about. [img]smileys/smiley1.gif[/img]

Cali · 07-02-2004, 02:36 AM

i agree with patricia, felix. this is none of your business and u don't know the circumstances. it could've been a one time thing or not, either way you can't do anything about it. try not to think about it, hey did you get my email of the pillsbury doughboy?

mestonf · 07-02-2004, 06:30 AM

Thanks everyone for your help...i won't say anything and just blame it on drink!!

I can always count on you lot!!! [img]smileys/smiley32.gif[/img] [img]smileys/smiley31.gif[/img][img]smileys/smiley31.gif[/img][img]smileys/smiley31.gif[/img][img]smileys/smiley31.gif[/img][img]smileys/smiley31.gif[/img][img]smileys/smiley31.gif[/img][img]smileys/smiley31.gif[/img][img]smileys/smiley31.gif[/img][img]smileys/smiley31.gif[/img]
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Love you alll!!!!!!!!!

Cali i got no e-mails on the pillsbury doughboy!??

jayavo · 07-02-2004, 12:52 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Patricia

Honey, this is none of your business Im afraid... Not telling may make you feel guilty, but if you tell, you might end up feeling bad as well... [img]smileys/smiley18.gif[/img]

you shouldnt feel guilty either, you didnt do anything.

its their lives, not yours. you have nothing to feel bad about. i find guilt to be another big problem with the world that no one talks about. we feel guilty for everything that isnt in our power to do anything about and for what other people do. shrug and say glad you aint my love.

jason

The worst guilt is to accept an unearned guilt.
Ayn Rand

indigoangel · 07-02-2004, 12:56 PM

mestonf the thing here is that you dont have a full view of the situation. for all you know this guys wife could well know all about this other guy and be ok with it (hard to believe,but there are lots of people out there who are ok with open marriages, even in the back of beyond half-catholic ireland where i live)

so dont worry bout it, you caught a glimpse of something that has nothing to do with you and is no responsibility of yours. i know its hard to forget, but its not worth getting stressed about.

keep that caring soul of yours though, is always a good quality [img]smileys/smiley1.gif[/img]

Tink · 07-02-2004, 02:01 PM

Aww Felix what a horrible situation to be in i don't think you should say anything though because you dont know all the facts like you said it may be a drunken kiss

Juzzza · 07-02-2004, 02:03 PM

Brilliant, my first question is... Is she hot?

If she is indeed a MILF, quality, you know she is up for it... Time to swoop in my friend and hey, if she turns you down, play the old blackmail card... You can't lose!!!!!!!!!!!

[img]smileys/smiley5.gif[/img]

Um... I mean, without knowing all the circumstances, best to keep it to yourself. You don't know what goes on behind closed doors and unless someone you really care about is being hurt by you not telling them, sleep well and party on dude.Edited by: Juzzza

Vienna · 07-02-2004, 02:04 PM

haha that's charming!!

my mum's a MILF or so my male friends insist on telling me...not exactly something you want to hear to be honest!![img]smileys/smiley11.gif[/img]

Tink · 07-02-2004, 02:06 PM

So is my mammy she is very pretty though

Juzzza · 07-02-2004, 02:09 PM

[img]smileys/smiley2.gif[/img]Alright!!!!!!!!!

Beautiful girls with MILFs!!!! And Damien Rice fans too!!! [img]smileys/smiley18.gif[/img]

Easy ladies [img]smileys/smiley9.gif[/img]

Vienna · 07-02-2004, 02:10 PM

easy there tiger!!! [img]smileys/smiley2.gif[/img]

Juzzza · 07-02-2004, 02:11 PM

To be honest, your mams are probably more my age [img]smileys/smiley19.gif[/img]

Tink · 07-02-2004, 02:14 PM

My mammy is 39 but doesn't look it in the street ppl think we are sisters

Juzzza · 07-02-2004, 02:15 PM

Oh I'm 29 so somewhere in the middle... Between you and your MILF!!! [img]smileys/smiley17.gif[/img]

Vienna · 07-02-2004, 02:15 PM

nah dear unless you're in your forties....i'm nearly 21 so i'm thinking i'm closer to your age!![img]smileys/smiley36.gif[/img]

Tink · 07-02-2004, 02:18 PM

yeah i think Vienna is closer

ali* · 07-02-2004, 02:19 PM

MILF?....hot mom?

Vienna · 07-02-2004, 02:20 PM

yeh...it's very rude and uncouth!![img]smileys/smiley36.gif[/img]

Juzzza · 07-02-2004, 02:20 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ali*

MILF?....hot mom?

Phrase coined in the American Pie movies or at least made famous by them... Mom I'd Like to F**k!!! [img]smileys/smiley17.gif[/img]

Tink · 07-02-2004, 02:21 PM

Yeah thats the polit version its Mother I'd Love to F***

07-01-2004, 10:35 PM	#1
mestonf Eskimo Regular Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: England Posts: 4,164	people i need your help this might seem really irrelavant to you as i'm not a person to some people but belive me i am, but i live in a really close community and i have just seen my happily married neighbour kissing another man. sh*t i'm scared the other man was another neighbour. this could ruin their families, do i keep it to myself or tell my mum. I have known these people for years and it was the weiredest thing i have seen, whats this world coming to [img]smileys/smiley5.gif[/img] __________________ Damien Rice Fan Society

07-01-2004, 10:38 PM	#4
mestonf Eskimo Regular Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: England Posts: 4,164	no i don't wanna say anything because it could have been a drunken 5 minutes kiss, but it just kinda freaked me out __________________ Damien Rice Fan Society

07-01-2004, 10:42 PM	#5
pamela Eskimo Regular Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: Scotland Posts: 2,157	umm tough call..... it depends on a lotta things. i dunno sorry __________________ I know that he loves me. . . . . Cause he told me so

07-01-2004, 10:43 PM	#6
mestonf Eskimo Regular Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: England Posts: 4,164	yeah it is.....i'm just gonna forget about it and go to bed.....but forgetting could be hard...........but anyway i'm just listening to dry your eyes mate by the streets seems to be good at this moment in time __________________ Damien Rice Fan Society

07-01-2004, 10:45 PM	#7
Patricia Eskimo Regular Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: United Kingdom Posts: 3,213	Honey, this is none of your business Im afraid... Not telling may make you feel guilty, but if you tell, you might end up feeling bad as well... [img]smileys/smiley18.gif[/img] __________________ "To do is to be" - Nietzsche "To be is to do" - Kant "Do be do be do" - Sinatra

07-01-2004, 10:36 PM	#2
Vienna Eskimo Grammar Queen Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: Bristol Posts: 5,626	OMG that's madness...dunno what i'd do in that situation [img]smileys/smiley5.gif[/img]

07-01-2004, 10:37 PM	#3
GlttrGrrl Eskimo Goddess Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: United States Posts: 1,353	unless you know the details of this person's relationship with her husband and this other man and are a friend of theirs, I don't think you should say anything.

07-01-2004, 10:46 PM	#8
mestonf Eskimo Regular Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: England Posts: 4,164	yeah it could mean that i'm butting in others personal lives but i won't say anything......the woman's children are all ready f**ked up as it is.....i shan't say anything __________________ Damien Rice Fan Society

07-01-2004, 11:45 PM	#9
The Weatherman Eskimo Regular Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Ireland Posts: 2,705	Was this not in that teen programme, The O.C.? [img]smileys/smiley5.gif[/img] __________________ How about that, yeah...

07-02-2004, 12:21 AM	#10
Tomarse Eskimo Regular Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: United Kingdom Posts: 388	Maybe you mistook the tele for a window then. [img]smileys/smiley36.gif[/img]Ahem, sorry, errrrrr I'd probably just tell my mates. [img]smileys/smiley2.gif[/img]Still not helping am I? I'll get my coat. [img]smileys/smiley29.gif[/img] __________________ If I was all the colours, I'd paint you pretty in gold.

07-02-2004, 02:29 AM	#11
Angela Eskimo Regular Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: cloud #9 Posts: 5,029	It seems that, though you've "known" them for many years, perhaps you don't know as much about their private lives as you thought. And, as you said yourself, who knows what it all means. Not for you to worry about. [img]smileys/smiley1.gif[/img] __________________ Emmett Tinley World Domination Commission (ETWDC), Treasurer.

07-02-2004, 02:36 AM	#12
Cali Vegetable Eskimo Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: A room of musical tunes Posts: 5,158	i agree with patricia, felix. this is none of your business and u don't know the circumstances. it could've been a one time thing or not, either way you can't do anything about it. try not to think about it, hey did you get my email of the pillsbury doughboy?

07-02-2004, 06:30 AM	#13
mestonf Eskimo Regular Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: England Posts: 4,164	Thanks everyone for your help...i won't say anything and just blame it on drink!! I can always count on you lot!!! [img]smileys/smiley32.gif[/img] [img]smileys/smiley31.gif[/img][img]smileys/smiley31.gif[/img][img]smileys/smiley31.gif[/img][img]smileys/smiley31.gif[/img][img]smileys/smiley31.gif[/img][img]smileys/smiley31.gif[/img][img]smileys/smiley31.gif[/img][img]smileys/smiley31.gif[/img][img]smileys/smiley31.gif[/img] [img]smileys/smiley31.gif[/img][img]smileys/smiley31.gif[/img][img]smileys/smiley31.gif[/img][img]smileys/smiley31.gif[/img][img]smileys/smiley31.gif[/img][img]smileys/smiley31.gif[/img][img]smileys/smiley31.gif[/img] [img]smileys/smiley31.gif[/img][img]smileys/smiley31.gif[/img][img]smileys/smiley31.gif[/img][img]smileys/smiley31.gif[/img][img]smileys/smiley31.gif[/img][img]smileys/smiley31.gif[/img] Love you alll!!!!!!!!! Cali i got no e-mails on the pillsbury doughboy!?? __________________ Damien Rice Fan Society

07-02-2004, 12:56 PM	#15
indigoangel Eskimo Regular Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Ireland Posts: 893	mestonf the thing here is that you dont have a full view of the situation. for all you know this guys wife could well know all about this other guy and be ok with it (hard to believe,but there are lots of people out there who are ok with open marriages, even in the back of beyond half-catholic ireland where i live) so dont worry bout it, you caught a glimpse of something that has nothing to do with you and is no responsibility of yours. i know its hard to forget, but its not worth getting stressed about. keep that caring soul of yours though, is always a good quality [img]smileys/smiley1.gif[/img] __________________ if you dream it, you can achieve it - if you imagine it, you can become it

07-02-2004, 02:01 PM	#16
Tink Eskimo fairy godmother Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: England Posts: 2,897	Aww Felix what a horrible situation to be in i don't think you should say anything though because you dont know all the facts like you said it may be a drunken kiss __________________ L'amour detta, il bacio scrive i segreti del cuore...

07-02-2004, 02:03 PM	#17
Juzzza Eskimo Regular Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: Jersey Posts: 924	Brilliant, my first question is... Is she hot? If she is indeed a MILF, quality, you know she is up for it... Time to swoop in my friend and hey, if she turns you down, play the old blackmail card... You can't lose!!!!!!!!!!! [img]smileys/smiley5.gif[/img] Um... I mean, without knowing all the circumstances, best to keep it to yourself. You don't know what goes on behind closed doors and unless someone you really care about is being hurt by you not telling them, sleep well and party on dude.Edited by: Juzzza __________________ www.justinthorne.com ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ 'Ninjas killed my family, I need money for Kung-Fu lessons'... homeless guy's sign, New York (May 2005) http://www.myspace.com/justinthorne http://www.myspace.com/jtintheshadows

07-02-2004, 02:04 PM	#18
Vienna Eskimo Grammar Queen Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: Bristol Posts: 5,626	haha that's charming!! my mum's a MILF or so my male friends insist on telling me...not exactly something you want to hear to be honest!![img]smileys/smiley11.gif[/img]

07-02-2004, 02:06 PM	#19
Tink Eskimo fairy godmother Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: England Posts: 2,897	So is my mammy she is very pretty though __________________ L'amour detta, il bacio scrive i segreti del cuore...

07-02-2004, 02:09 PM	#20
Juzzza Eskimo Regular Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: Jersey Posts: 924	[img]smileys/smiley2.gif[/img]Alright!!!!!!!!! Beautiful girls with MILFs!!!! And Damien Rice fans too!!! [img]smileys/smiley18.gif[/img] Easy ladies [img]smileys/smiley9.gif[/img] __________________ www.justinthorne.com ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ 'Ninjas killed my family, I need money for Kung-Fu lessons'... homeless guy's sign, New York (May 2005) http://www.myspace.com/justinthorne http://www.myspace.com/jtintheshadows

07-02-2004, 02:10 PM	#21
Vienna Eskimo Grammar Queen Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: Bristol Posts: 5,626	easy there tiger!!! [img]smileys/smiley2.gif[/img]

07-02-2004, 02:11 PM	#22
Juzzza Eskimo Regular Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: Jersey Posts: 924	To be honest, your mams are probably more my age [img]smileys/smiley19.gif[/img] __________________ www.justinthorne.com ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ 'Ninjas killed my family, I need money for Kung-Fu lessons'... homeless guy's sign, New York (May 2005) http://www.myspace.com/justinthorne http://www.myspace.com/jtintheshadows

07-02-2004, 02:14 PM	#23
Tink Eskimo fairy godmother Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: England Posts: 2,897	My mammy is 39 but doesn't look it in the street ppl think we are sisters __________________ L'amour detta, il bacio scrive i segreti del cuore...

07-02-2004, 02:15 PM	#24
Juzzza Eskimo Regular Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: Jersey Posts: 924	Oh I'm 29 so somewhere in the middle... Between you and your MILF!!! [img]smileys/smiley17.gif[/img] __________________ www.justinthorne.com ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ 'Ninjas killed my family, I need money for Kung-Fu lessons'... homeless guy's sign, New York (May 2005) http://www.myspace.com/justinthorne http://www.myspace.com/jtintheshadows

07-02-2004, 02:18 PM	#26
Tink Eskimo fairy godmother Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: England Posts: 2,897	yeah i think Vienna is closer __________________ L'amour detta, il bacio scrive i segreti del cuore...

07-02-2004, 02:19 PM	#27
ali* eskimo drama queen Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Ireland Posts: 2,399	MILF?....hot mom? __________________ Ah Christ I'm such a Drama Queen....

07-02-2004, 02:20 PM	#28
Vienna Eskimo Grammar Queen Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: Bristol Posts: 5,626	yeh...it's very rude and uncouth!![img]smileys/smiley36.gif[/img]

07-02-2004, 02:21 PM	#30
Tink Eskimo fairy godmother Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: England Posts: 2,897	Yeah thats the polit version its Mother I'd Love to F*** __________________ L'amour detta, il bacio scrive i segreti del cuore...